Getting married is not what matters most, but staying happily married.
Any dummy can marry; even retarded couples marry. But only the intelligent and wise ones are happily married.
I always say, it is better, healthier and safer not to marry than to marry and be divorced or separated later.
Don't start the dance of romance that will end up in violence.
It is better to rest in peace and not in pieces with miserable children from your broken home cursing you for bringing them into this world to suffer the terrible consequences of your horrible marriage.